One Day at a Time in Al-Anon:
Even with a growing understanding of Al-Anon philosophy, we might find it difficult to accept such a statement as this: “Al-Anon is a way to personal freedom.”
Suppose I feel like a prisoner, trapped in an irksome way of life, as so many of us do. What am I doing about it? My obvious impulse is to try to manipulate the things and people around me into being more acceptable to me. Do I argue, rage and weep to make my spouse behave in a way that I think will make me happier? Happiness isn’t won that way.
Freedom from despair and frustration can come only from changing, in myself, the attitudes that are maintaining the conditions that cause me grief.
Today’s Reminder:
I have the power to set myself free by conquering the personal shortcomings that chain me to my problems. And not the least of these is the short-sightedness that has made me refuse to accept responsibility for the way I am.
“Be not overcome of evil, but overcome evil with good.”
— Romans