Self-pity or recovery—it’s our choice “Self-pity is one of the most destructive of defects; it will drain us of all positive energy.” – Basic Text, p. 80 In active addiction,…
Courage to Change: One of the first things I heard in Al-Anon was that we didn’t have to accept unacceptable behavior. This idea helped me to see that I need…
One Day at a Time in Al-Anon: I live with an alcoholic. Whether still drinking or not, the situation calls for patience, acceptance and resolution. How do I acquire and…
Powerlessness and personal responsibility “Through our inability to accept personal responsibilities we were actually creating our own problems.” – Basic Text, p. I3 When we refuse to take responsibility for…